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“Some teens think it's really lame to wait, but a sexual relationship is special, unique and worth waiting
for. It should be just as acceptable to wait for sex.”
—Nicky, 22, Greeley, CO from Sex, Etc.
It's pretty obvious that the only way to avoid dealing with sh** like AIDS, or all of a sudden
thinking you need to kill your baby, is by simply not having sex unless you're married to the guy or girl. It's
a no-brainer. One of the biggest reasons people get married to pretty much say to everyone "hey, guess what?
I'm commited to this person to love, care, and be there, and when we decide to make babies,
we're gonna be ready for it, in every way - not just the physical condom stuff." So much for your
dumbass boyfriend ditchin' you for being pregnant. Not happening if you're married to the guy.
"Oral
sex is risky. You can't get pregnant, but almost every serious STD can be transmitted through this type of sexual activity.
Oral sex is just as intimate as intercourse, it has the same emotional repercussions, and can have the same detrimental effects
on relationships if it is entered into lightly."
Ya gotta know a few interesting facts:
1 in 4 teens having sex get Venerial Disease (VD), including AIDS.
About one million teen girls get pregnant every year.
The U.S. has the highest rate of teen pregnancy, birth, and abortion in the "civilized"
world.
Less than 33% of teen moms graduate
Around 20,000 young people get AIDS each year, which means that two young Americans aged 13
to 24 get HIV every hour.
Two-thirds of the 12 million Americans with Venerial Disease are younger than 25.
So here are some tips to try:
- Always remember you have made an important decision for yourself. Don’t let anyone try to talk
you out of it. Be proud of your decision. "
- I'd hate to sound vulgar, but if you think you need sex real bad, use a replacement. A vibrator, finger, or hand
rubbed between your legs should make you feel satisfied until you get married. It's not gross (try it in the shower
or bathtub), perfectly normal and OK, won't make you go blind, and
is safe from any risk of getting pregnant or catching Venerial Disease. The only "protection" you
need when playing there is guarding against "impure" thoughts. Whatever you do, don't feel guilty:
you aren't doin' anything wrong.
Here's a thought: how the heck are two virgins (who don't inject drugs) and marry each other gonna
end up dyin' of AIDS or scratching themselves for the rest of their lives (Venerial Disease
give you stuff like mind boggling pain (talk about gettin' kicked in the balls), crazy
itching, loss of your chance to ever have kids in the future, and, ofcourse, death)? Donated blood is always
screened for AIDS these days, so obviously there's nothing to be afraid of if you decide to stay a virgin 'till you marry.
Trust me, it's up to you to decide if it's worth it. "If in doubt, don’t. Many
people later look back and regret sexual involvement [before marriage]. Very few regret having waited."
*http://teenadvice.about.com/library/weekly/qanda/blchristiansonsex.htm
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